Throughout our life we have been taught learn to forgive other people's mistakes,for their only human.
But have we ever think of we are human too?
It's easy for us to forgive other ppl's mistakes,but yet it seems like its so very hard for us to forgive ourself for mistakes we made....
Yep,i am one of those human too.....
Each time i made a mistake i try to remember what my mistake is & remind myself not to repeat any again.
But hell i was so wrong!
The more i try to tell "not to repeat the same mistakes",the more likely i would still them again & again.
Well,why is that so?
After reading from some books i learned that when i m telling myself "pls do not repeat this mistake again",so unconciously i m actually telling myself i would still repeat the same mistakes again.
For example,i tell myself "do not ever panic during exam".Eventually i would still panic during my final year,which is not good at all.Therefore,this "do not ever panic during exam" actually reminds myself unconciously that i would still panic at exam,jz like a black magic curse!!
Then i will keep on feeling guilty & guilty,& not knowing what to do since the feeling is already overcome by guilty....
Then indirectly this feeling will guide me to a situation which is full of pressure,aching my shoulder bones,emotional+negative thinking.....etc.
At last,i know that i m easy to forgive what my friends had done to me,even the person i love most.But i always failed to forgive upon my own mistakes.....
Man,i almost forgot that i am still a human!
Pray tell me,which human never made mistakes one?
So do i!
Not only must i learn from my mistakes,but i hv to learn to how to forgive myself too,to further prove that i m still a human who live on Earth.
Finally,i dun have to keep telling myself "pls DO NOT repeat xxx again".Instead i tell myself,"i CAN overcome xxxx"
That's the end for now.Do have a nice day all my dear friend.Learn to forgive yourself is one of the way to happiness!
